Why do you consider yourself living in a simulation? Not to sound snarky but why don't you go outside and meet people, exercise, play sports, explore nature?
Lots of people don't find it worth it anymore. Most members of the public are the same and aren't free-thinkers, whatever that means to you. That's one reason-excuse I feel.
For many people it's shame. Feeling like you're mentally a child while everyone around you is an adult can't be a good feeling.
Who’s not in the simulation at this point?