Since last year, I have returned a couple of items. I also have drastically reduced shopping at Amazon. I have a lot of patience compared to some people, who abuse Amazon's return policy. That said, there is a limit to anyone's patience.
What I am trying to say is - "maybe go to different ones" might not always be possible. If you are in a hurry to get somewhere (maybe a family member is in the hospital) and a United flight is the only one available, what then? Also, other airlines are not super great either.
Maybe for some household item I can shop around at leisure, but "maybe go to different ones" is not possible all the time. Plus, shopping is tiring and irritating as it is, not everyone wants to do PhD level research for every item they buy
I don't want people to go out of their way to hurt the companies, purposefully buying tickets they don't want and then refunding them or something. I'm just saying that on the occasion that a mistake happens, you shouldn't feel bad about using whatever legal/procedural recourse available so that you don't have to just eat the cost.
I would go for alternative airlines if there were any. Alas.
I've plainly stated that I don't think they are bad to the point you should go out of your way just to attack them.
I also didn't say they are evil, destroying the world or anything like that. If that's what I thought, then yeah, stopping doing business with them altogether might be the best course of action.
But I simply said that you shouldn't feel bad about making use of recourses made available to you by either the law or the company itself. Which I don't think it's at all incongruent with continuing to use these companies' services.
Okay, and when all the small mom and pop grocery stores are out of business and there's no place to buy food where the practices aren't shitty, what then? Stop eating? Take all that spare money that we know everyone has laying around (sarcasm, obviously), and buy a plot of land big enough to farm for your own subsistence?
I hope you can take the analogy here and realize how entirely divorced from reality the answer "just stop flying" is.
some time ago I was thinking that "well, these dark patterns are there, but I am buying from Ryanair so what I expected"
and then I was buying from more upscale company and it had literally the same dark patterns trying to mislead and upsell you
Have you ever been to Europe, if you are living in the US? I'd like you to compare costs of flying regionally there compared to here.
Airlines are just another example of oligarchic control - it's incredible that people are expressing sympathy here as if the consumer and the airlines are on equal footing. I hope you enjoy your customized dynamic pricing based on personal information they've collected about you.
Fuck you, airlines.
I guess there's are routes (Frankfurt) where technically there are two options but they don't really compete
On many routes, especially between continents there is only one option.
some specific routes may have de facto monopoly but many, many are not