what browser are you using and how are you disabling the plugins?
I have all mine ether set to not allow or only after click to play.
the only way to have proper security is to disable the plugin. there is a button on the address bar that allows you to enable plugins on a page when they have been disabled. this gives you a similar experience to click2play but it is quite annoying especially if you are used to click2play.
That is really misleading! :\
Click-to-play doesn't actually require click to play