The Oakleys, the beach, the looking off to the side. It's not any one thing, it's the totality of the circumstances.
If we're done picking on looks and personal issues, something I tried to avoid very carefully in the article, perhaps we can focus on content and ideas?
Or am I missing the sense in which we're using "bro" here?
> Or am I missing the sense in which we're using "bro" here?
I'll bite. You are completely missing the sense of brogrammer. Brogrammer refers to behavior and attitude and not looks or activities.