I love the part where mbellotti wrote that you were scoring introductions through your OKCupid matches. That's some great and unconventional hustling.
I'm not sure about that, it seems very regressive to me, playing into the stereotype that the way for a woman to succeed is by attaching herself to a successful man. I would say it's one step away from flirting with your boss to get a raise.
Especially if the person's also in the startup scene. The ecosystem thrives on people helping each other out.
But from the phrasing of the OP ("great hustling"), I took it to mean that she was actively "hustling" OKCupid by using her dating profile (i.e. people's desire to sleep with her) to get business contacts (i.e. money).