Namely, the speaker made reference to "weaker" DB technologies being used due simply to a frictionless barrier to entry. Mongo was cited as one example. The use of MySQL over Postgres was another. This is basically taken verbatim from the presentation in the video.
This isn't about which systems are "better" or "worse", but which are simpler to get up and running with. Mongo is super duper simple to install and configure. So is NPM. Managing complexity is a real and valid concern, but also not what we're talking about here.