1) Not currently (and it's unlikely to be able to do so) there's an addon to add it which has been talked about getting it into core. I do believe it's documented to use HSTS and TLS if you want your site secured and recommends the ddon.
2) The above addon does have it. I have no idea what bitbucket does.
3) Not sure I understand what this means, you mean if there is a valid XSS on a subdomain?
Decoupling CSRF and Sessions has been a requirement for us for awhile now. We've spoken a little bit about optionally coupling them where if you have the session framework enabled it will couple them but if you don't it falls back on the current method.