There isn't one kind of "security" person. I work in security. But I don't install antivirus, I don't write hardened runtimes, I don't configure firewalls, I don't analyze malware samples, I don't design ciphers, I don't write policies, and I don't do forensic investigations.
All I do is break into software; I do vulnerability research, and that's pretty much it right now.
As a vulnerability researcher, it's not on me to provide you with a good crypto library. People like us write software in order to find vulnerabilities. We're specialized so that we can be very good at doing that by dedicating all our time and attention to that one problem.
But much more importantly: like vuln researchers, don't like vuln researchers, it doesn't matter. When vuln researchers complain about crypto libraries, they are informing you of facts. You can ignore those facts and probably be vulnerable, or accept them and act on them and not be vulnerable.
Having said all that, there are in fact good crypto APIs. You can use Keyczar, which was a Google project. You can use NaCL, which is Daniel Bernstein's project; it even has a Ruby port now. You can use Peter Guttman's cryptlib.