Now if you did get close to one, considering that the popular ones are visibly repurposed airliners they would probably go down pretty easy. But that's a little like saying "I can sink your aircraft carrier with my 16" gun" without the proviso that "... as long as you let me get way too close first".
So when you see hostile planes driving towards you, you send some fighters to go and shoot them down.
Meanwhile the AWACS can be supporting air, sea and ground battles happening for hundreds of kilometres in every direction. They really are powerful tools.
The point is to deal with what exists currently and what is likely to exist in the service life of a military system.
You're right though. Space will eventually and inevitably be much more militarised.
But at the price of $1T they better be thinking of the future and think about opponents who are also willing to spend around that order of magnitude on defense.
Sure the space-borne laser or railgun is fun, but it's probably not the first thing that the Taliban or their equivalent will attempt. Unless they can find a way to hijack one that we've conveniently installed for them.
Yeah it seems big defense is building for two opponents. Strategic opponents -- basically anyone who has nukes and is not an friend.
Then there is a need to build for guerrilla warfare, roadside bombs, urban combat, target assassinations.
Recently the later seem to matter more. But big and high tech projects will get funding and will do so. Now the system is broken and often the only reason these projects get funded is because there is some defense contractor extending its hand waiting for the next $200M to keep profits up and people employed.
Now it would be interesting to research how to combat or counteract drones? What can someone in a poor country oppressed by a more powerful enemy with drones do to defend against them. Can they be detected easily?