I have no control over who can access it there. I'm not running the data center. I'm not hiring the staff. I'm not deciding on any monitoring. I basically just throw that key over the fence hoping the hoster will keep it secured.
And then I turn around and tell my users, trust me, only me and you can see the data we're exchanging. Isn't that one big lie? How do I handle this in a less haphazard way?