And I'm guessing that the difficulty comes from the fact that she's building a freaking operating system from scratch... ;)
It's also quite jarring to read; I was confused if the OP was speaking of someone else. People often point out grammar or factual mistakes, I see your parent as doing no different.
EDIT: And it goes a bit further. The sole reason why we are having this discussion is because the author explicitly used a female name and her writings still got perceived as those of a male author. If there no name or just a generic nick, most people in here - myself probably included - would have assumed its a male by default.
I guess I see a blatant mis-gendering as not 'banal.'
It shouldn't be. There are two things going on here:
* Perception of our industry as all-male biases women against joining
* Default use of 'He' exacerbates this by unsubtly signalling that our community is all-male
So why flag female hackers?
* To try to combat the perception of us being an all-male community (we're not)
* To signal to women and men that both genders can operate comfortably in this environment
Why do we want more women hackers?
* We are ignoring more than 50% of the programming talent in the world
When in the tutorial by accident she called a woman by "he", she told that in doubt in the tutorial for Computer Scientists she calls people by "he" and in the tutorial for media scholars by "she", since because of the gender ratios of these courses of studies this behaviour maximizes her likelihood to be correct.
I'm confused by your characterization. Why do you think it is brusque?