>Speciesism is a perfectly reasonable position. Assigning the exact same values and rights to cockroaches/jellyfish/ants as we do to humans is ludicrous. Any number of moral thought experiments should immediately demonstrate how absurd that would be (e.g. would you refuse to sacrifice 2 ants to save 1 human?).
You've misunderstood anti-speciesism. Anti-speciesism means that "moral worth" is not determined at all by species. It doesn't mean that all individuals have the same "moral worth". In other words, if we find a new species which is pretty much identical to humans in terms of age, intelligence etc., they should be roughly equal in moral worth to humans even if they're from a different species.
Another key point in non-speciesism is the argument that "it's just an animal". Species shouldn't be used in ethical arguments. Anti-speciesism doesn't mean that intelligence, ability to feel pain, average lifespan and so on have no place in moral discussions. Of course they do. I would sacrifice two ants to save one human if that increase utility (because I happen to be anti-speciesist person who belives in something close to utiliarianism).
Another thought experiment would be comparing a severely mentally disabled child and a chimpanzee of equal intelligence and predicted lifespan. I think it would be as evil to kill and eat the chimpanzee as it would be to kill and eat the child.