This is probably not the right vehicle to ask 'Am I being treated fairly?', but I think I will anyways. The startup is pre Series A, I'm the first non founding/non executive level engineer, I'm technically a contractor but treated pretty much exactly like an employee (I know that's a whole separate thing), I'm not the most experienced engineer, i.e. last year at my prior job I was an intermediate level but this year I would be considered senior at most organizations, I get a decent hourly rate, it's 95% remote, and my equity percentage is... .25% with four years of vesting.
I could be wrong, but I've come to the conclusion that after dilution and taxes, any thing short of a billion dollar exit isn't going to be compensatory for my efforts. I don't know how correct my conclusion is, and whether I should try negotiating for more.