Note that, at least for the UK, asian includes people from India. I don't where you are, but the tech scene I see in the bay area has plenty of white, asian & indian people in it. In contrast, I've only run into one other african-american engineer in my 13 years in tech... and he was first generation Nigerian(like myself).
Don't forget income. Asian family incomes are typically much higher than black and latino households. The parents are more often found in high-tech jobs which gives their offspring a big jumpstart. A black or latino parent might work in agriculture, food services, or low-skill manufacturing jobs and they aren't bringing a PC home to do work on, or have enough money to purchase one for their kids.
Personally, I've given up trying to argue with people on this matter. Some view this sort of reverse-discrimination as some sort of noble social-correction mechanism, I just view as what it is. Because, to me, at the end of the day, we are dealing with individuals. And sure, we may be uplifting certain individuals, but at a cost of other individuals purely because their gender/race was previously benefited in some way.