Not really a reasonable expectation, unfortunately. To discuss stories of "I know this other person who also similarly fell sick" and "The current system is so bad if you get into trouble, X,Y, and Z should be different for better results" is very much a part of the coping and mourning process. And of course we wish mindcrime a speedy recovery.

Fair enough.

@mindcrime -- I am so happy to hear that you got fast treatment and that you seem to be doing alright. I hope that you bounce back quickly and that you are able to look back on this as a brief dip in an otherwise rich and rewarding life.