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If you don't think that the woman you are with has a high enough sex drive for you then you should probably discuss it with her or find someone more compatible with your needs.

If you can't be satisfied with sex with only one woman the you are free to lead a polyamorist lifestyle if you wish.

It's the generalisations across entire genders and the implied sexism that come across as childish. Not to mention your bizarre and horrific attitudes to rape. Do what you like, but women are people with varying tastes and drives just as much as men are. Maybe if you got to know a few you might find this out.

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> It's the generalisations across entire genders

Do you take everyone so literally?

> horrific attitudes to rape.

... I'd roll my eyes, but I'm not American enough. What's being discussed is barely even rape at all, except in some broad, all-encompassing dictionary-style definition of the word. Something falling under the broadest possible definition of the word rape doesn't automatically mean that it's rape in the sense of a male assaulting and raping someone.

> women are people with varying tastes and drives just as much as men are.

Yes, and there's barely a person alive that doesn't know this; see point #1.

I was talking about the attitudes to rape you displayed in the other thread further down the page, some of which have now been deleted they were so bad.

It's awful, you have a terrible attitude and a real lack of empathy.

I mean this - "Having sex with someone without their consent is rape, but that doesn't automatically mean it's a bad thing." - what the fuck? You clearly have no idea and I hope you're just young and stupid.

I can't remember everything I've written, but I don't see that anything's been deleted.

I'm sorry if I can't accept it as an axiom that all rape is equally bad...

Are you. seriously. saying. that just because something falls under the broadest and most pedantic definition of rape, that that means it must automatically be violent, bloody, sadistic?

If you fuck someone awake in the morning, that fits that very same definition of rape, therefore it _is_ rape, but it's obviously not a bad thing.

If one such counterexample exists I don't see why a few more shouldn't.

Are you even AWARE that I'm talking about the WOMAN initiating here?

and the reason I'm saying that is that the main argument against me on that subject seems to be: "rape is very bad because rape is very bad".

also: the posts were shadow-deleted. also: I can't even comprehend how sensitive people are that they feel the need to delete that. it isn't even hate speech or anything, not that speech in itself is a bad thing or that people can't just ignore it when they see it.

the only thing I can see accomplished by such deletion would be people assuming the absolute worst, on the basis of information they don't have access to.

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