> It's the generalisations across entire genders
Do you take everyone so literally?
> horrific attitudes to rape.
... I'd roll my eyes, but I'm not American enough. What's being discussed is barely even rape at all, except in some broad, all-encompassing dictionary-style definition of the word. Something falling under the broadest possible definition of the word rape doesn't automatically mean that it's rape in the sense of a male assaulting and raping someone.
> women are people with varying tastes and drives just as much as men are.
Yes, and there's barely a person alive that doesn't know this; see point #1.