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> being called gay at work in coded ways.

I don't know the details of your situation, but could you elaborate on this?

A lot of the time it will come out as just micro aggressions. Some of the more explicit ones I can think of off the top of my head are:

After they found out I was vegetarian "Oh of course you are"

Woman in the office said she has never seen me on Tinder, coworker replys "Its cause he's on Grindr"

I can think of a few others but I don't want to post anything thats too identifiable.