If you don't mind me asking, what are you paying for rent? Been considering moving out there so trying to get a feel for things.
If you're willing to live a bit further out (like Milpitas/Santa Clara), you can live somewhere for under/around 2000, which (when split with a spouse/partner/roommate) can be reasonable given the salaries in the area.
Looks like I'd have to live with roommates if I moved out there.