ElectricMind

You have a good dilemma at hand. I mean it is good dilemma to have :)

Some people will never let go "Gender" out of anything good. Does sky fall down when the book says "him/he"? Does message not delivered? Is book about "Gender" study?

It will work as long as Gender is anonymous. As soon as it appears, same age old game of cat-mouse begins. Guys will chase girls. It is so fundamental to us, maybe you can find a way to escape this :)

It is okay you didn't waste time. I know what it feels like.

But I need to know more YOU. I mean where are you from? Are you boy or a girl? Do you have any chronic disease? Who else is in your family? What is your relationship with them? Do you have gf/bf?

You see your life is not separate partition: work, family, friends. Everything is connected and everything affects each other. I can throw some "pop-advice" at you but it will be useless. Also one thing is sure you need to visit Therapist, good one ASAP. Consider it as investment - kind of like going to Dentist, only for your mind. Good luck mate. May the force be with you :)

P.S: Please look into Stoicism too :)

Thanks mate for sharing. Nothing too crazy is wise in long term. Keep it up :)

"This Little Maneuver's Gonna Cost Us 51 Years" :D

I believe in Power, Sex and Money. I can give up first one if I had but last 2 , hell no.

Sounds like chaos that someone like "Fierce Nerds" would create. Keep it up.

People don't change. "poor" in mind will always be "poor" even if surpass Elon Musk. What kind of stories one feed himself/herself on daily basis defines him/her. I am just at ease that everyone is screwed in his/her own way including me. Humans..

I wait for the language Angelina, Veronica, Mrs. Smith etc. Smart dream you can say.

Sometimes it is just a bad day, not bad life. Maybe no need for "heaven and earth" decision, huh?

Please read

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

I think you need it.

If you don't mind sharing, how you was able to mass $3M liquid at 34? Any way congrats and keep it up :)

You can ask 5-why questions and get to root of this?

//I generated about £20,000 in roast revenue, and another £50,000 of freelance marketing work from clients //

This guy made this much money with a simple idea. And he hasn't killed anyone. So even though I would never buy such service or think it is worth something to buy , I don't want roast this guy for earning money. All the best.

I think people try this negotiate but not entitled to remote work.

When you applied for the job , did it say "REMOTE"? If no, then there is no entitlement to anything. You have to agree what company says.

If you not happy then you can find a new job that says "REMOTE".

It is about time state stop meddling in marriage initiated by 2 consenting adults.

I have right to spend my money/wealth according to my wish ( after paying taxes). How the hell we end up with this unjust law?

//reading "Mindf*ck"//

Could you tell more. Maybe gist of the book. Thanks

//multinational companies in Europe//

Could you please name few of these, I soon will be looking for Junior Java Developer job. Thanks :)

I don't know what else am I going to see as long as I alive in this world. I can't catch a break.

First of all thanks for sharing "inside" secret. Old me would have judged you but not any more. Man got to do what he need to do. All the best :)

Reminds of the great Thanos quote by seeing very opposing views in the comments below

“As long as there are those that remember what was, there will always be those that are unable to accept what can be.” (Avengers: Endgame, 2019)

Solution? Same need to reduce everything till last atom and start again..

Maybe you know this but just to reiterate.

Write lot of unit green test cases , keep green bar BEFORE going for refactoring or anything.

//I am constantly meeting people younger than me that just blow me away with their smarts//

How old are you? How old they? Can you give some example of "blew away smartness"?

I agree with you on this one. Great boss- I think most problems never even bother you. But if leadership itself is 'saving his/her skin' , I think it is time to find new job :)

You create a monster (Google, Facebook etc..) then you cry for help when it comes bite your own hand? This one is on America and "American dream" Sorry I meant "American greed". Maybe both are same? Unfortunately whole world suffer as always -_-

Wait till someone pushes “hypocrite commits” replacing string "weeds" with "humans". Booyah :)

Note 3: I am not bot. I swear.

Will he get job/work somewhere again?

My tinder's rejection ratio :)