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I don't even know how guys are getting married without prenup these days and asking "wife" permission to do certain things..
*1-2 years later success
Same people "Let me write something so I can milk the cow. I stop writing about code but instead how to make cheese from the milk which I am about suck from the cow organically"
As soon as your "passion" becomes "full-time" job , it is over. Any way I have to find my cow. Cioa
2) Your friendship is essentially over. Cherish the past and let him go. Find friends in near about your income bracket. Better if they are poor than you by some margin
3) Read Stoicism
4) Focus on you and your family's wellbeing. Blood is thicker than water. So stop wasting time on who is digging hole where and how much deep and look after your hole and start digging your own hole. Metaphorically !
Thanks for pointing this out. I thought I was alone thinking this. I mean it tells lot about company right : how they keep toilet/bathroom ..
Mate, remember obstacle is the way. Be grateful you supporting manager and good colleagues around you. Ask for help. No more quitting talk. Break down problem into pieces. Learn learn and grow. Don't squander opportunity given to you , trust me there 10 waiting outside for same opportunity. Good luck there :)
1) I will create my bare minimum number below which I will not accept for X company.
2) I will ask company after successful interview : "What is the maximum you can give - final number?"
3) If that is number is less than 1) , end of discussion. I find another job. Not wasting any time
4) If 2 is slightly greater than 1, I will try to get better number by medium negotiation
5) If 2 is way greater than 1, I accept offer. Done
Did I miss something?
//other than that, there is no real "prestige" to the university //
I am not sure what to say. Okay how many Prime Minsters from one university needed to count it as "prestige"? sorry for naïve query.
Good day !