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Eventually I got tired of it and started to negatively reinforce it. Instead of consoling her, I started to tell her how hard it was to hear what she was saying and that I didn't want to hear it anymore. I asked her to focus on the positive parts of life and gave her samples of what real tragedy was like by pointing out samples in the news that she watches every night. I know it was harsh but I don't think it was harsher that her recounting the same stuff everyday to me. The negativity has slowed not stopped but at least we can have a conversation now.
This is what I did but I can't recommend it to you since your situation can be so much different. Also, her short term memory is still functioning to a point. She mostly does her daily care and she requires very little help.
This is phrased as a put down but the way I see it we should all be as lucky and fail like Neumann. I wish I were a failed billionaire like him. Instead I'm a "successful" web developer that works for someone else to make sure I can pay my bills.
Ok, I'm ready to fail. Where do I go? :)
Get your ideas from existing pages in the web. Don't try to create your own. Copy as much as possible from the web for your design.
Once you have done as much as possible on paper. Sign up on to one of the page builder sites such as square space or wix. Set up your design there. They also have the ability to create interactive pages so go thru the tutorial until you can create the interaction you want.
A big advantage of having a project you want to create is that you can hunt for the different tutorials on the web that will show you how to get what you need done. There are tons of tutorials on the web. Take advantage of the situation and use them.
There's going to be a steep learning curb for you but it's very doable.
Once done decide if you want to continue learning. At that point turn your site into html files and look for a place to host the site. Once you have a working html web site look into creating the interactive pages in javascript or php.
You can't be an expert overnight but if you do it a bit at a time you can achieve a lot. Make it a hobby where you learn a little bit at a time.
Charitable foundations should have a finite number of years to do their work.
If they are truly willing to change their ways then start lobbing congress along with their fellow millionaires and act on it rather than talk about it.
Unfortunately it makes it that much harder to fix the problem. Now we have to fix the problem and convince the deniers that it's a problem . Which is close to impossible since the more evidence they see the more they will try to normalize it.
Also, generally speaking people don't know what they(we) want. It's hard to like something you've never seen. New shows are full of new stuff so how can the public make a good evaluation after a 1/2 hour or even a full hour.
I agree computer science needs to change. There needs to be a way to incorporate some of those aspects into a CS degree. If we want the full advantages of tech in our lives.
The government might come after him for not paying taxes but that's not related to the collapse of the cryptocurrency.
I suspect many people here have seen or been part of the same situation.
Does anyone have any idea what their new approach is?
But keep in mind there is no ideal work solution. Every place you choose will have its pluses and minuses. You can't choose your co-worker so you need to learn how to work in environments you find less than great.
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Lastly, ALWAYS consult your doctor before you change anything. They understand your situation and will be able to give you the best advice vs random people on the internet (me included).
In a perfect world collaboration would be ideal but we have seen that people just stop trying after awhile and become free riders with only a few doing the majority of work. So in affect collaboration wastes a lot of potential effort by letting people ride it out.
Long term competition is the best way to move forward but it can't be the all out version where resources are wasted rather than used wisely where we try to win at what ever cost.
Right now the only solution is to minimize plastic use as much as possible. Please keep this in mind.
The key is to find a balance where there is progress but you aren't burning your resources to the point of impeding it. It's a fine line.
I agree it's too early to make it a country's currency since it's too easy to manipulate and he has no control over it but it's a work in progress. He has years to make it work for the country.
Counting on willpower to help you lose weight is a lost cause for most people. The key is to put yourself in situations where you can't over eat and/or you have to follow what your past self thought was good for you.
Your weight loss should be gradual but consistent. People want to lose all the weight in a short time but they never reflect that it took years to gain the weight. It should take a while to lose it.
One way to reduce the affect of excess carbs is to follow a low glycemic diet similar to what people with diabetes follow. You might want to look into it.