I don't like cults. I don't like the 'cult of closed software' any more than I like the 'cult of open software'.What you're saying is you don't want to make a concrete decision and you want options to be open to you.
This is not a war, and anybody that is trying to make it look like one is manipulating people.
It's a war between many businesses, non-profits, users, developers, etc. Do you want to be stuck with Microsoft Windows everywhere? Or Intel's x86 hardware everywhere? Intel, Microsoft, Apple, etc. will all do what they can to kill the competition.
That's not manipulation, that's the truth. You can try and ignore it, but computer history is full of conflict between various companies who tried to force their ideas and "standards" upon the rest of the industry and on their competitors.
Maybe you just hate the word "war". Call it competition then, or conflict, or a struggle, or whatever else you want.
No need for all this polarizing.
Yes there is. One idea is opposed to the other. How can there not be polarization?
This whole 'drama queen' episode has gone on long enough, let both deIcaza and Stallman go back to their respective IDEs (at a guess, Visual Studio and Emacs) and write some code to prove their point instead of all this prose.
This is actually Stallman's point, and it was also the open source movement's point. Code is not enough. There is also the discussion of freedom or the discussion of marketing.
You want to completely ignore the discussion. I don't mind, you can step out if you like, but what you're saying is exactly what a proprietary software company would like. They don't want discussion at all because discussion means legitimizing alternatives.
If you don't want to take part in the discussion, the confrontation and war of ideas, then don't take part in it.