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It's definitely not the volume of posts that puts them there.
It would only be a facsimile of you at a specific moment in time... which would make each facsimile on parallel paths... scary
Interestingly I managed to discover a Huawei trojan that installed itself without me granting permission via a hotel router. It wasn't particularly well built back in the day which made it easy-ish to identify.
Makes me wonder where China is going with all the deals Huawei is making with Govts across the world too.
I have a particular coding style (own-prettifying), and so I can tell if I authored the code or if someone else has. I can also tell if mine's been edited by someone else too.
I'm sure you have talked this all over with the parent, and like you say there were mitigating circumstances, but it is the other person who has the right to the decision-making. Just keep that in mind that's all.
I was once asked to prove that future litigation had already been dealt with (my reaction: WTF???) before somebody bought something from me. It turns out they were looking for a specific certification, which was easy enough to obtain.
The point being, they had asked the question in such an odd way, that it just confused rather than communicated.
Just ask them what they expect to receive from you in the way of proof, or that would be acceptable proof, and then go about getting it.
Try also to go via a switchboard, or a reception desk. This way you can 1) practice on the receptionist 2) get a feel on how responsive the company is to this approach 3) get some names to contact directly
As someone mentioned here it is a numbers game, and believe me the more you do the easier it gets. You build up resilience to the responses, and after a while you find an approach that works for you.
Another one I tried was pretending to be someone else, for example a student doing research, (ahem social engineering student haha) and as I got into the role, it became dead easy to speak freely....
But look at it this way, if the client was asking for a small reduction in the rate the agent would be on the phone right away asking me to take a cut. They would also be getting a cut as their %age is based on my rate.
To be fair and honest, if the client is offering more to get you - for whatever reason - then that must filter down.
That just didn't happen here. The client therefore has also been mislead because they think that I am being paid appropriately. Instead the agent is profiteering.
In the past sports agents worked both for the team and the player. This lead to exactly this situation, players and clubs getting shafted by the agents.
It changed when some smart person decided that the clubs and the players should have their own agents, and that if a club wanted a player because of their talent - which is the main reason - they had to engage their own agent 1) to attract the player 2) negotiate a price with the play's agent. The pplayer paid their agent 10%, and it was their job to defend the interests of the players against the interest of the club.
Hence today we have players paid huge amounts based on their talent.
I also know what I can get away with making in this market, so what I'm making is not the issue per se, although this is below my normal rate, and I agreed to this on the grounds that were presented to me - which turned out to be completely false.
I work with many recruiters, not just this one. This one happened to have a job available at the time I was available...
Lastly, they point blank refused to negotiate, at all. Hence the need to fire them.
Perhaps you should think about the real value of money.
http://blog.sossee.com/2013/04/29/bitcoin-explained-part-1/
Disclosure: my post.
EDIT : I checked, you use a pseudonym I don't suppose it identifies you as the writer of the posts.
If you publicly acknowledge that you are accepting bitcoin as payment, beware that you will have to account for it's value on the day of the transaction. This means that if a person buys a pair of shoes at $50 and you hadn't adjusted your own exchange rate in line with the market for that date, you could end up recording more $ or less $ for that sale, and you pay tax a % of your profit on that sale.
A freelancer however could, in theory, conduct their business entirely out of the public gaze, but that would also entail your customer playing the game. If at least one half of the transaction's address is known, then the other can be found out in the blockchain. It won't identify you specifically in the transaction, but your customer may be forced to disclose who they were paying.
Ask any singer or actor, hearing "You are great" all the time means you cannot trust anyone's judgement. If someone says "No" or "I don't like it", you can always follow up with the question "Please can you tell me why?"
Business people love to chase a holy grail, this being yet another one.
Would you want to hire someone older than yourself? Absolutely. But only for the job that suits both me and them. I may want someone who really has the experience to do a specific task with authority, and that is more often than not a greybeard, or enthusiastic experienced (40+) peer.
I find it very strange coming from a community of so-called "hackers" that this should happen, considering a) the interesting and complex technical mechanisms involved, and b) the "mysterious" circumstances of it's coming about. Who wouldn't want to get their hands dirty with it - at least out of curiosity?
In fact, it's what I find more and more irritating about this community,
Apologies @pg - just had to let off steam.
It would be pretty dumb not to include that aspect, but as far as I know, these are exactly the things bitcoin prevents.
There would be very few people with peer-to-peer networking skils the programming knowledge to put that together and thhe mathematical knowledge to create the algorithm and the economics knowledge to understand how to control inflation. But there are still weaknesses in the process.