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We are not like other animals in this regard, we have the option to do better.
Ignoring the rest of the comment, I wish everyday I could have this, but I’m not convinced it exists. Modern society and work culture feels setup to be as painful as possible to people like myself.
I will say, as someone not from Southern Alberta the way they handle winter out there was almost surreal coming from the east.
I wouldn’t even be capable of overstating the damage done to my life by it. Inattentive form is a curse in my personal experience, but of course I am one person and not all have such bad experiences.
The mentality can be harmful, for some of us there are no strengths and no benefits provided to us, just years of suffering and bad outcomes. Makes me feel worse about myself personally, but I’m glad for those who haven’t had the same issues.
Name a tangible effect Brexit had on my life, just one. Not theoretical things like political isolation and the like.
I will give you the Ukraine bit, that has impacted me, but I have zero influence over a war on the other side of the globe. Worrying about it is a waste of my time.
The street lighting bill going up though? That was noticeable come property tax time.
This is a very American thing fwiw. A lot if not most of these positions are not elected in other countries.
I have to focus on this I can control and things that impact me directly and most of that happens at the local level, where I actually have power as an individual.
National and international news is almost worthless, it makes me worry over things I have no means of controlling and frankly? My mental health is more important to me than keeping up with news in far off places.
I only vote municipal, those elections actually have a real impact on my life and I have firsthand knowledge of the issues and the people.
If I hear news it’s a five minute hourly update on Radio 1. Tech news is another beast, I quite enjoy things like HN.
Tinker away, laws be damned.
If there’s 100 videos I scroll through at this point 1 might be worth clicking.
I didn't want to call out consumerism too directly or by name, because people tend to take it badly. Even a lot of the comments here are quite defensive and I didn't even get into what I truly think about the situation.
There's no way this system is sustainable long term.
I admit I don't know the situation in other places, but where I live it's trivial to give things away for free, or to donate them. There are multiple non-profit second hand stores where you can quite literally just drop stuff off outside their door at any hour of the day. They'll access it and if it's fit for resale they'll put a small price on it and handle the rest.
I've seen examples of towns that have specific "free stuff" weeks where people put out things that aren't garbage and anyone can take them. I quite like the idea, because it means people know they won't have to root though actual garbage.
Anyway I picked it up, tested it out, and donated it, so maybe it'll be useful to someone yet.
Society is very clear that it is not okay with this. If I'm "just myself" then I wouldn't be able to hold down a job and survive.
> Medicate always as a last resort
We shouldn't be so hesitant to medicate. It can be extremely useful, especially in combination with other management techniques. This stigma against medication hurts people.
Because they don't understand just how debilitating it is and how much trauma it causes a person. It's absolutely shit, especially for those of us who find out later in our lives like both of us apparently. Aside from the normal issues that go with it, now I'm also plagued by the thought of how things could have gone had literally anyone picked up on it when I was a kid.
I don't think it's about being cool, at least not completely, I legitimately think some folks want at least some struggle in their lives. Something to fight against, something to give them...purpose? I'm honestly not sure, but I know if they did have it they'd do everything they could to get rid of it.