Lots of misconceptions here. If you're interested in learning more I'd highly recommend reading up a bit, https://nostr.how (disclaimer, I'm the maintainer of that site).
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That said, while I am not the core dev on the protocol or any client/relay it’s been awesome to see the points of confusion from the comments and questions here. Keep them coming - great fodder for new guides.
I imagine relay services will get better over time here but something to be aware of.