35 karma · joined February 20, 2007
(Macbook Pro with VGA and 8gb RAM)
On a paid online dating site (for eg: match.com), you know that the people are there because they really are looking for a relationship (and that they care enough to pony up ridiculous money for the site). You get a sense of a person by various things that they say about themselves, and you only initiate conversations with ones that you'd be interested in. Though much of the Ariely discrediting is with the search attributes, those open-ended questions offer a peek into how the person views himself/herself. If you move beyond the superficiality, there is definitely a good chance there. I've been on a dates with people I met online, and I do feel that there was better chemistry on these dates rather than the offline ones.
Other than that, I love the idea, and really nicely executed for a launch! I'd signup if I were into farming, and did not live on the 10th floor of an apartment complex.
I think that FB has grown beyond a point where any other network can compete in the short run. The more important thing is that FB needs to realize they have attained a size where they need to care about social responsibility and be governed by certain policies. All these attempts by the site to ram down new social values into our culture is what needs to change.