guywondering

thanks, actually i run a meetup group on unrelated topic. but still find it hard to relax and have natural friendships with people (feedback i get is that i am too serious, but its hard to just "lighten up")

thanks, read the book a long time ago but guess time to brush up and try and put into practice..

thanks, will email you separately, or if you have some tips for others reading feel free to share