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https://archive.org/details/representationso00said
Only a little over a hundred pages, and quite accessible—straightforward, even—but like other books in this thread full of profundities that take on different meaning as the reader passes through different seasons of life.
For many use-cases it can be much more efficient to step back and let the LaTeX get written for you.
As the years go by it keeps growing and my reverence for my own responsibility to them keeps increasing.
I don’t wanna say she takes the university life for granted, but I can’t say she understands what it’s like to work in a place where you’re the one and only curious, well-read person.
EDIT: janitors, bellhops, and waitstaff are much more interesting than office plankton. But there is no culture of reading and learning in either context.
Wanna hear the super effed up part? I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND their feelings! Like so many other modalities of code-switching I’ve learned, with just a little concentration I can go back and forth: having my kids do better than me is the main objective in life [VWOOP!!] the worst misfortune that can befall a parent.