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There are too many awful parents out there for me to believe having kids makes one uniquely qualified to make suggestions. Dismissing ideas with a variation on "you must not have kids" is a huge red flag. It's usually done by people who see kids as things to be controlled and made subservient instead of as adults in progress.
We were all kids once. We all had friends whose parents had different styles, and often we got to see how that turned out. We all have a set of relevant experiences to pull from on the subject. Maybe it won't work for you. That's fine, but maybe you could actually say something about what's wrong with the suggestion instead of issuing a blanket dismissal. Or do the polite thing and ignore it.
You can spare me the condescending "so you don't have kids" that always follows this and just move on if you have nothing better to say.
It wasn't what I expected of Stargate, but it was watchable.
[0] Which he refused to clarify, leaving people to make heuristic decisions based on available info and personal experience with homophobia. He is, of course, free to think and feel however he wants and not share details. Others are free to decide what to invest time, energy, and money in.
Firefox users can right click on the browser chrome, go to Customize, and add a subscribe button that lights up when a page has a feed. It's not as snug a fit as what used to go in the address bar, but it still works.
Guys are hot, too. Not all of them need to pay for ads, and not all the women got there without it.
Relevant: http://www.cryptomuseum.com/covert/bugs/selectric/index.htm
That's an oligopoly.
Often these are people I've sent from somewhere else, and we talk regularly. It's not like with Facebook where it's a faceless corporation unless you're spending enough on ads to get an account specialist.
They generally knew me before they gave me money. I'm not collecting any data on them other than the email. I don't even run analytics on web pages I control. I wouldn't even know what to do with it that would tell me anything I don't already know, or that I couldn't get by just asking.
I don't have any reason to trust that a VC-fueled monster like Spotify understands this. If Spotify bought Bandcamp, I would remove my music from it.
VC-fueled behemoths like to make people dependent on them. I can't trust my business to a company that gets most of its money from outside investors instead of the people who use the service. Their incentives are fundamentally misaligned with my interests.
There have been times where HN got super slow or started erroring randomly, but worked normally in a logged out browser. I assume this is what's happening.
I'm also very glad for it because I know how I can get if there's no barrier between my annoyance and the post button. This has helped me be less annoyed and more self-aware in general.
It could be more prominent.
Here's what you can do:
1: Find one album you like.
2: Click through the profiles of people who bought it (those icons under the album cover).
3: See what else they like.
You can also check out Bandcamp's blog and click through the tags on posts for genres you like: https://daily.bandcamp.com/
Most people seem to find out about Mastodon from someone, and that someone suggests the instance they're on. That's why a lot of artists end up on Mastodon.art, for example. So far, the admin has a good reputation for being consistent about updates and keeping the community engaged.
People keep trying to find some technological heuristic to establish trust, like requiring legal names or some kind of scoring system. So far, it's even worse because people encode all their cognitive biases into it and none of the mental models or processes people develop for checking those biases.
I can't use my real name on Facebook because I can't get a legal name change. So I don't use Facebook.