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Came here to mention the same thing. I use a plain text todo format that is quite similar (thought not nearly so thought out/complete) to the one OP is proposing, but I use indentation for grouping as it's a lot easier for me to visually identify related groups of tasks.
I don't want to speak for Neil Young, but I imagine he knew for certain Spotify would choose Rogan. But there's no such thing as bad press right? He knew he could force them to publicly take a position and now here we are all talking about it. Mission accomplished by Young I'd say.
edit: apparently littlestymaar and I are operating on the same wavelength this morning.
This book has a profound impact on me and my relationship with my kids. Read once early in their lives and then reread as they go through different stages in their lives.
Caffeine is a drug so saying "it feels like" is rather understating it.
That may be true, but in this case we were specifically discussing an exception where gender was not relevant.
Also, these comments about "mother" are irksome to me since it feels like you're accusing me (or OP) of implying something I'm not. Not that it really matters but my wife and I (a father) work full time and during the pandemic I was the caregiver during normal business hours while my wife retained a normal working hours schedule.
OP specifically mentioned this is not the scenario we are discussing.
"If you have very young kids, it's impossible to have a distraction free work environment at home unless you find someone to take care of the kids and enforce the no distractions rule."
Again, neither OP or I are arguing against this.
"Both parents are caregivers in a marriage, there's no single caregiver."
Again, this feels like an uncharitable reading of my statement. Of course there are two caregivers but often there is one person in charge of the kids, hence my caregiver (singular) statement. Which partner it is, is irrelevant.
"People often assume, somewhat unfairly, that this person should be the mother."
How is this relevant to this post?
I don't think they're implying that. In fact they said "It can be impossible if both of you work" which you can extrapolate to "It can be impossible if you're the sole caregiver".
Of course if you are the only person home, you can't expect a 4 year old to let you work uninterrupted for long stretches of time. I don't see anyone trying to argue that point of view though (certainly I would never say that).
When I read your statement it feels like you're saying you think the OP is just throwing proclamations over the wall rather than sitting down and having a family discussion about how to ensure the day is arranged in everyone's best interest.
We were able to achieve this during covid with two kids doing distance learning as well. However, we were extremely fortunate that we were able to do shifts where my wife worked 7-3ish and I worked 3-midnight.
Establishing boundaries like "don't interrupt the person who's working" needs to be a discussion that happens between the whole family. Of course, the caregiver will be responsible for the physical enforcement but the caregiver should understand that it is in the long-term best interest of the whole family that the worker is able to have uninterrupted work time.
Also, by the age of 4 most kids are capable of understanding and learning to respect boundaries.
"To be clear, Sam’s basic approach is a bit slower for single-threaded code, and he admits that. But to sweeten the pot he has also applied a bunch of unrelated speedups that make it faster in general, so that overall it’s always a win. But presumably we could upstream the latter easily, separately from the GIL-freeing part."
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