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Work: https://nonducorduco.com
Disclosure: not a lawyer, YC is a Major Investor in my startup.
Is that a brain injury, or just... mental health challenges? I was expecting something more permanent but in practice if occupational therapy and such work then it implies a significant psychological feedback loop component at least.
1. Customers all have a singular convergent goal to 'get efficient'. The only thing better than software which can reduce jobs, is having less software.
2. That is happening in all companies, so whatever type of software you are selling it becoming more difficult. Doesn't matter if former PMF existed.
3. Some of the digital boom during Covid (e.g. ecommerce) that floated so many startups is running backwards. Wealthy consumers mostly spending money in person. So e-commerce went from insane growth to slow growth, etc.
Those are the three things we've seen but really they apply to any B2B startup.
Damn they must really be hand to mouth right now...
That said, you typically start the vesting at the start date of service to the company, so you would credit yourself with 6-7 months of vesting and your co-founder with 0-1 months.
The general assumption at this point is that it takes 10-15 years to reach a meaningful exit, so a split that unequal six months in is uncommon because it's a small percentage either way of the totality of the founder journey.
Split is up to you but I'd recommend four year vesting for both of you, one year cliff for both, starting on service start date.
Do you have any time for yourself? -> One kid is not that bad from a free time perspective, but when you have two there's maybe five hours a week for each parent and it ends up being zero sum with two (or more) on one childcare.
Where are all the tech dads? -> Age peers in tech don't seem to have kids despite being the small slice of people arguably able to comfortably afford it. Mostly seem to bank up cash and have kids in mid to late 30s and slow lane themselves.
I wrote a bit about my experience being a founder and a dad where I started my company in the same month as my wife and I found out she was pregnant with our first child. Link here: https://rogerkirkness.com/founder-and-father
1. Make it possible (even if it's ugly and expensive to do) - Blackberry
2. Make it pleasant/probable (aka improve the UX to customer maximum) - iPhone
3. Make it profitable/cheap (optimize efficiency/cost to deliver) - Android