Yep, 100% agreed. Last month I scheduled phone calls with close friends/family to ask questions like this:
• What can I be doing differently?
• What's holding me back?
• What should I spend less time on?
• If you were me, what would you change?
• Where should I focus next?
• What can everybody see that I can't? What's taped to my back?
What an amazing experience! It's so hard to listen to criticism without defense. It's even harder to find actionable next steps once problems have been identified! I think I've been more interested in actionable feedback lately, but I guess not all good feedback is necessarily actionable
[1] https://taylor.town/year-day