Given that there was no consequences for this woman's actions, what are the chances she did or will do this again to another person?
maybe you should take a look at this [1]
/petpeeve
If common sense triggered my pet peeves that much I'd have to stay out of internet comments.
I don't know, as a pretty recent transplant from Texas to NYC, I find a lot of things to be fucked up here. I have a choice about how to respond. I can get very deeply upset by how messed up everything is, or I can accept responsibility for my choices, realize when I've made a bad one, and find some humor in the situation while I make a mental note to not do that again.
Did you ever file a police report or anything? Sure, it could be your fault for getting yourself in that situation, but this person sounds violent/dangerous.
you are policing what people are allowed to laugh at, no one claimed it wasnt fucked up, but that doesnt mean they cant laugh, laughter is one of many ways to cope with trauma.
you are either being intellectually dishonest by trying to reframe my argument incorrectly, or you didnt understand it in the first place
I'd say it's a tad intellectually dishonest to frame my argument that way in the first place.