Brain do not have real distinction for dreams and real stuff. If you "live through" your dream - this is the same for your brain as to actually get all inputs from the outside world - that's what I am talking about.

What you are talking about - to dream enough to want it "so bad you can taste it", but not actually "taste" it. That's where you get hooked into going through A, B, C .... to get finally to Z.

I.e. there is fine balance. The question - how to find this balance and how to teach kidos to master it.

PS: IMHO =)