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Considering her attitude towards it, maybe it's a secondary gain to be putting some natural limitations on time spent with girlfriend.

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Why are you jumping to judge her? Is totally reasonable for someone in a relationship to want to spend time with their partner, and be upset if they literally never get to. What's even the point of a relationship if there's no companionship?

Did she ever offer to help with the digging?

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