You realise that single parenthood is a choice (I'm a single parent by choice), whereas having your family separated under slavery is not, right?
The comparison should be prevalence of kidnapping in modern times vs family separation under slavery.
The comparison should be prevalence of kidnapping in modern times vs family separation under slavery.
It was a choice made by a private citizen to choose their own autonomy.
That's very different to a choice made by one person on the life of another, enforced by the power of the state.