I'd second OP's opinion as a 1.5 Gen.
Immigrant parents (Asian, Latino, Eastern European, African) in America will push their kids harder because when you're an immigrant, a mistake like getting suspended in school or a DUI can destroy any chance at naturalization because you need to establish "Good Moral Character" [0] which is largely at the discretion of the presiding interviewer and a backlogged USCIS Immigration Judge
[0] - https://www.uscis.gov/policy-manual/volume-12-part-d-chapter...