It's awful, you have a terrible attitude and a real lack of empathy.
I mean this - "Having sex with someone without their consent is rape, but that doesn't automatically mean it's a bad thing." - what the fuck? You clearly have no idea and I hope you're just young and stupid.
I'm sorry if I can't accept it as an axiom that all rape is equally bad...
Are you. seriously. saying. that just because something falls under the broadest and most pedantic definition of rape, that that means it must automatically be violent, bloody, sadistic?
If you fuck someone awake in the morning, that fits that very same definition of rape, therefore it _is_ rape, but it's obviously not a bad thing.
If one such counterexample exists I don't see why a few more shouldn't.
Are you even AWARE that I'm talking about the WOMAN initiating here?
also: the posts were shadow-deleted. also: I can't even comprehend how sensitive people are that they feel the need to delete that. it isn't even hate speech or anything, not that speech in itself is a bad thing or that people can't just ignore it when they see it.
the only thing I can see accomplished by such deletion would be people assuming the absolute worst, on the basis of information they don't have access to.