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> being denied access to something other people can use is a type of harm
― C. S. Lewis
And good people are the ones who won't punish you for that. I'd agree an entire social group being this open minded seems unlikely in 2021, but GP may just have really effective filter bubble.
The technique is simple: ritually venerate the thing you wish to be more observant of, and never denigrate its value. So in the case of traffic stopping, have a thing that you do whenever you notice it (e.g. tap your braking foot), even while you're not driving, and never ever look at your phone whilst driving. Another way of thinking about it (if you don't like the word ritual), is as a variant of the Alexander technique: whenever you notice that thing, consciously note that you noticed it, and emotionally reward yourself for doing so.
I'm not sure where this fits on the scale of "outrageous quackery" to "blindingly obvious" but it seems to be news, and also useful, to fifteen year olds.
https://medium.com/@garyweiss_86200/cade-metz-pulls-a-deep-c...
Based on his behaviour in this and other[1] situations, I have no doubt that if Metz thought he could get away with something more unsavoury, he would have tried to.
[1] https://medium.com/@garyweiss_86200/cade-metz-pulls-a-deep-c...
Are there any good resources online for learning this?
(Here's hoping I can avoid the wrath of Poe's law)
> Generally, I'd look for a small shop in your local area and vet them.
How would you recommend to vet them to someone without a security background?
The pressure analogy is a really good one; the problem is a lot of people don't understand water pressure any better than they understand electricity.