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lassearpe

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lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Nice, thanks :)
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Time to focus.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Definitely rather in my 20s. Good points to consider.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
I live in Scandinavia. My other half can take some time off her job after the birth (paid parental leave), and there are no medical bills associated with the birth itself.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
This makes good sense to me. Thanks a lot for the perspective :)
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Thanks :)
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Thanks for another perspective. I should be grateful for many things. Comparison the thief of joy and all that.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
That's a good perspective. I will do my best.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Thanks :)
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
You're right about the last paragraph. At least some sort of affirmation.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Thanks, man. That's a good point.
lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Yeah, that resonates with me.

Value-wise, I would describe myself as more family-oriented than career-oriented.

I guess I am just worrying about finding a decent job along the road, also to provide for said family.

Thanks.

lassearpe··on Ask HN: Having a child before career has taken off
Thanks for the perspective.