Me and my wife ended up having to manage everything, she was accountant, I did snow removal when the snowfall was not enough to trigger the company we hired to come out, vendors contact, etc. It got to be a lot.
We kept looking around and seeing the major maintenance headaches coming in the next decade and the utter lack of savings by the association and it was scary. We ended up leaving and now we have no HOA. We are still treasurer and snow removal though.
My in laws are in an HOA and their board is obsessed with preemptive maintenance. They are redoing siding on every property over the next few years and assessing more than ten thousand dollars a unit. Utter insanity and waste.
I have other friends and family who have no particular feelings about their HOA, so apparently they are not all evil, but man is it tough to believe.