folnol

> You want a trans women to be forced to use men's toilets

They are men, so this is what they should be using. Or unisex facilities if available.

> where they will be insulted, groped, spit on, punched, and assaulted

The prospect of male-on-male violence, or the rhetorical fantasy of it, is no reason to permit males to impose themselves upon female spaces.

As a rhetorical strategy, bringing suicide into an argument in a way that pressures the other person to comply has to be amongst the most contemptible forms of moral coercion.